I suppose it was good I had something to keep me busy, because around this time sleep issues started to spiral out of control again. The longer it had been since my last ketamine infusion, the worse things got. My functioning dropped down to essentially zero; no matter what I did, I'd wake up with a complete lack of energy to concentrate on anything. On my best days I could continue writing an essay, but that wasn't at all helpful because I couldn't absorb any of the information from the textbook that I needed to have the knowledge to write said essay. Forget the pain, imagine trying to read a dense and complicated law textbook after you've been awake for 2 days straight. No matter how much effort you put in, you won't learn anything useful long term. In essence, I had to completely drop out of school for the first time since 2011 when I was at the hospital psych ward. This didn't exactly help my mood a great deal.
My doctors sensed my desperation and started getting bolder. The next step was trying a new painkiller, oxycodone. We'd replace my codeine with it. My 2010 morphine prescription didn't go... smoothly (if you don't remember: it didn't help, turned me into a zombie, and so I took lots of it to try and end my life) so I was definitely nervous about trying another powerful opioid. But hey, at least that doctor has gotten to know me and trusted me enough to try this in the first place. This was, after all, the same guy who was initially reluctant to write me a letter for medical parking at university. In his response he simply messaged saying "exercise." He did write it when my dad insisted, and our relationship is great now. Point of clarification though, I had no intention of using the oxy during the day (unlike we did with the morphine.) As it was with every single one of my pain and sedating medications, it was meant to help me sleep. I can handle the pain if I can get rested sleep. Sure, using it during the day would help with pain, but the goal was to get me back to school and being high all day didn't seem conducive to that. I had seen a study on using oxy to treat EDS pain and it said it should only be a last resort. That it was.
So, what happened? The oxy let me fall asleep 4 hours earlier. You may think that's a good start, but it also completely destroyed my REM sleep cycles. On the first night it dropped by half, 28% to 14%. My sleep doctor, who had nothing to do with the oxy prescription, was not surprised. As with most opioids, he was aware that it can really mess with your sleep, doubly so for oxy. I had one not horrible night where it hit 21%, but with that I can only work for a few hours in a GOOD day as opposed to the 7 hours with the 28% and 12 hours in the aftermath of the first ketamine infusion years ago. Things were mostly bad though, so it was decided that we would double the oxy dose. I was aware it could be counterproductive, but without any alternatives it was worth a shot. And then... regrets.
My REM dropped down to 5% after we raised the dose. After a second night of this, I immediately stopped all of the oxy, and things went back to the also crappy "normal." Essentially, to function, I need REM to be in the 20s, to live I need REM to be in the teens, when it drops down below 10% you simply start losing the will to continue on. You can enjoy nothing, and are just killing time with distractions until something changes. Here's a quote I sent to my family while all this was happening a few months ago: "Now this is just ridiculous. I took double the OxyContin for the first time last night and look at how insanely awful my sleep architecture was. I only got 5% REM. That's by far the lowest I've ever gotten. On top of that I only slept 10 hours so that means I only got 39 minutes of REM and I was awake for over 2 hours of those 10 hours. It was mostly entirely light sleep at 62%. I can't overstate how frustrated I am. Not sure if I should even bother trying again tonight. This crap is why I'll have to drop at least one of my 2 courses. Compare all this to a good night's sleep where I get 28% REM after sleeping for 14.5 hours for a total of 4 hours 35 minutes of REM. And my light sleep is only at 40%. It's unbelievable." I put a lot of effort in manipulating sleep so that'd I wouldn't sleep through my cousin's wedding in Montreal, but noise in the house a few days before from Rosh Hashanna celebrations woke me up and ruined my plan. This caused me to miss 95% of the wedding. I went to the party for 20 mins, then left to go back to sleep. Meanwhile, we were messaging the ketamine doctor about trying another infusion, but he refused saying I'm already on ketamine nasal spray. The spray helps, sure, but it wasn't nearly enough. I felt like I was officially out of options. Such news would usually make me have suicidal thoughts but my family and friends had been so understanding that it made it far easier for me to accept my own limitations.
I got back from the wedding and so was finally able to return to the family doctor to report the disastrous oxycontin trial and the fact that I had completely dropped out of school. There I learned I wasn't quite out of options, yet. Just like me he was dismayed at how rapidly I lost my functioning, and proposed a few things. We agreed that patches like a Butrans or Fentanyl patch were a bad idea. This was because for those meds to work you have to build them up in your system, and that means wearing them essentially the entire day. As I've already said, being high all day may be more comfortable pain-wise but wouldn't improve functioning. There were two other things to try. The first was changing my codeine pills to slow release forms. Maybe that would help me stay asleep. This meant we had to raise the dose, though. If that failed, we'd try Methadone, a more powerful opioid. Well, it failed. My REM dropped to 8% on the first night and on the second I was only able to sleep for 3 hours. Basically, it was almost as bad as the oxy. It was time to move on to merthadone.
I told the family doc that we had emailed the ketamine doc again, explaining that I'd lost all my functioning and would be willing to stop the nasal spray if it meant getting another shot at the infusions. The family doc remarked that he thought the ketamine doctor was being too conservative. He said that ketamine only stays in your system for a week so if the nasal spray was preventing another infusion (and infusions have been temporarily amazing in the past) I should just stop the nasal spray for a week and do another infusion. He also didn't understand why the infusions have to be a year apart in the first place. He wished he could prescribe them for me himself. But then, a miracle. At the same time as I was starting the methadone the ketamine doctor responded saying he would in fact do another infusion, but this time it would only be over 1 day instead of 5 days. I'd stop the nasal spray a for a week before it since I didn't have any functioning to lose anyway. With the methadone my REM went back up to 25% but I didn't actually feel rested yet because I needed to stay awake as long as psychically possible to change my sleep schedule to make sure I made it to the hospital on time for the ketamine. A promising start, though. I was actually surprised because I had read that 3 quarters of those who use methadone reported clinically significant sleep disturbances. Figures that that ends up being the one that works best.
It was time for my third high-dosage infusion. Since it was over a single day they went full throttle right away with the dosage. Balls were tripped. Keep in mind, this is done at a hospital under constant nurse supervision because the dose is dangerously high. If you've heard from anyone who's taken ketamine recreationally, you know you see crazy things, but picture that effect doubled. Sure you do get very high but there's more to it than that. Your vision gets high too, but more literally. I'd describe it as floating through the ceiling into different rooms where the outlines and walls are more like liquid than solid objects. As your brain gets higher, so does your floating consciousness. Each room is more vidid and disorienting than the last as the pain drops to 0 for a while. Then once the IV is stopped it slowly starts morphing back into boring old reality and the pain immediately starts flooding back in. As per usual, in my more lucid moments, I spend a lot of time cycling my legs as if on a bicycle just because of how novel it felt to move them without getting an immediate pain response. The doctor was nice enough to come visit me again, a pleasant surprise. Due to the rapid high dosage the nausea was awful, I couldn't eat or drink a thing for many hours afterward even though you have to starve yourself before each infusion.
So how did it all end up? It worked! Again! I had my first decent sleep in half a year and right away started doing schoolwork again. It's indescribable how good that felt. To wake up and realize "Wow, I can think relatively straight for the next bunch of hours." Now on good days I can work for around 6 hours instead of 0, and on top of that I'm only awake 18-20 hours instead of 24-26. My REM was 29% and it was over a 16 hour sleep so it makes sense that I finally felt rested. The bad news was the alternating days issue theory still applies. For those who don't remember, this is the idea that I can never have 2 good days in a row. The better I sleep the harder it is to sleep the next night. Being awake longer incurs more sleep debt so it's guaranteed that I won't wake up rested the following day. This all happened 1 month ago from the time of this post and I still basically get a good day once every 3 days on average. It's kind of crazy that we're at the point where that's amazing, but there you have it.
A few other things of note:
1. My sleep doctor had me start taking multivitamins because he thinks I have a hyper-metabolism. It would certainly explain why I need such high doses of medications to get any effect. Funnily enough, insomnia and hyper-metabolisms have been found to be related. I've also started GABA and Magnesium which some say can help with sleep.
2. They recently updated the diagnostic criteria for EDS. I meet both criteria but apparently only 15% of EDSers can say the same. Most do not meet the new criteria which you can view here. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ajmg.a.61459?fbclid=IwAR39ZNmFl-0OBRxkU3DlQJHD6hRFjMUrSpDV5lgOG8nQs1kdfd5ZFO3rE7I
3. The neurologist who clinically diagnosed me was just arrested for sexual assault of his female patients. Most people diagnosed with EDS are with females, I wonder if that's a coincidence. Read about it here: https://toronto.ctvnews.ca/mobile/toronto-neurologist-charged-with-several-counts-of-sexual-assault-1.4739409?fbclid=IwAR1VoDIhtTHxYHgjA-O0qf-9l_PRsm4kkTU1EGNJMx5wanWBRtHotD9NGXU
4. News of the documentary featuring my struggles with EDS is rapidly spreading! The head of the Ehlers Danlos Society, the largest EDS group in the world, posted our doc trailers on her instagram page and said she's very excited. She was the star of the EDS documentary where she ran an entire marathon (With big complications, don't try this at home kids.) Thousands of people have seen the teasers for my own doc and hundreds have commented their excitement. $2420 has been raised so far for making it as great as possible. You can see her marathon doc here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wd6EojcCMDA
So, what happened? The oxy let me fall asleep 4 hours earlier. You may think that's a good start, but it also completely destroyed my REM sleep cycles. On the first night it dropped by half, 28% to 14%. My sleep doctor, who had nothing to do with the oxy prescription, was not surprised. As with most opioids, he was aware that it can really mess with your sleep, doubly so for oxy. I had one not horrible night where it hit 21%, but with that I can only work for a few hours in a GOOD day as opposed to the 7 hours with the 28% and 12 hours in the aftermath of the first ketamine infusion years ago. Things were mostly bad though, so it was decided that we would double the oxy dose. I was aware it could be counterproductive, but without any alternatives it was worth a shot. And then... regrets.
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I got back from the wedding and so was finally able to return to the family doctor to report the disastrous oxycontin trial and the fact that I had completely dropped out of school. There I learned I wasn't quite out of options, yet. Just like me he was dismayed at how rapidly I lost my functioning, and proposed a few things. We agreed that patches like a Butrans or Fentanyl patch were a bad idea. This was because for those meds to work you have to build them up in your system, and that means wearing them essentially the entire day. As I've already said, being high all day may be more comfortable pain-wise but wouldn't improve functioning. There were two other things to try. The first was changing my codeine pills to slow release forms. Maybe that would help me stay asleep. This meant we had to raise the dose, though. If that failed, we'd try Methadone, a more powerful opioid. Well, it failed. My REM dropped to 8% on the first night and on the second I was only able to sleep for 3 hours. Basically, it was almost as bad as the oxy. It was time to move on to merthadone.
It was time for my third high-dosage infusion. Since it was over a single day they went full throttle right away with the dosage. Balls were tripped. Keep in mind, this is done at a hospital under constant nurse supervision because the dose is dangerously high. If you've heard from anyone who's taken ketamine recreationally, you know you see crazy things, but picture that effect doubled. Sure you do get very high but there's more to it than that. Your vision gets high too, but more literally. I'd describe it as floating through the ceiling into different rooms where the outlines and walls are more like liquid than solid objects. As your brain gets higher, so does your floating consciousness. Each room is more vidid and disorienting than the last as the pain drops to 0 for a while. Then once the IV is stopped it slowly starts morphing back into boring old reality and the pain immediately starts flooding back in. As per usual, in my more lucid moments, I spend a lot of time cycling my legs as if on a bicycle just because of how novel it felt to move them without getting an immediate pain response. The doctor was nice enough to come visit me again, a pleasant surprise. Due to the rapid high dosage the nausea was awful, I couldn't eat or drink a thing for many hours afterward even though you have to starve yourself before each infusion.
A few other things of note:
1. My sleep doctor had me start taking multivitamins because he thinks I have a hyper-metabolism. It would certainly explain why I need such high doses of medications to get any effect. Funnily enough, insomnia and hyper-metabolisms have been found to be related. I've also started GABA and Magnesium which some say can help with sleep.
2. They recently updated the diagnostic criteria for EDS. I meet both criteria but apparently only 15% of EDSers can say the same. Most do not meet the new criteria which you can view here. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ajmg.a.61459?fbclid=IwAR39ZNmFl-0OBRxkU3DlQJHD6hRFjMUrSpDV5lgOG8nQs1kdfd5ZFO3rE7I
3. The neurologist who clinically diagnosed me was just arrested for sexual assault of his female patients. Most people diagnosed with EDS are with females, I wonder if that's a coincidence. Read about it here: https://toronto.ctvnews.ca/mobile/toronto-neurologist-charged-with-several-counts-of-sexual-assault-1.4739409?fbclid=IwAR1VoDIhtTHxYHgjA-O0qf-9l_PRsm4kkTU1EGNJMx5wanWBRtHotD9NGXU
4. News of the documentary featuring my struggles with EDS is rapidly spreading! The head of the Ehlers Danlos Society, the largest EDS group in the world, posted our doc trailers on her instagram page and said she's very excited. She was the star of the EDS documentary where she ran an entire marathon (With big complications, don't try this at home kids.) Thousands of people have seen the teasers for my own doc and hundreds have commented their excitement. $2420 has been raised so far for making it as great as possible. You can see her marathon doc here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wd6EojcCMDA
